Life as it is....

Honestly, why do we humans need romantic relationships? Why are we not just satisfied with the love from our family? Our friends? 

 In every relationship, each individual wonders why did they make themselves weak for their significant other..

Each couple, when going through hard times, hurt each other a lot. A lot of regrets start forming, self-defense increases, your independence comes back and you finally start to feel that you actually would be better off single.. It is only this piece of obligation that holds you back; it keeps you tied to that person whether or not you like it at that moment..

Why keep making yourself vulnerable to the inevitable hurt? Is the excuse ‘Love’? 

Let me ask you one question - if a person truly loved you and really wants to be with you… Why do they still hurt you? Why do they make you feel like a worthless piece of life? Do you really think that it’s fair? 

Communication as everybody knows is the biggest aspect of any relationship. It is the hardest thing to get by. In every relationship, things do tend to get one sided. Men would say that the women would always have to be right and the women would say the exact same thing about men. What exactly is going on here?

From a personal point of view, men do always want to be right just as much as the woman. Women don’t do stuff just for the heck of doing it, they have a specific intent and purpose for doing so (whatever they say and do). Men, on the other hand, do do things in the heat of the moment. Where am I going with this you ask - well, in communcation, there will always be a barrier in who is right and who is wrong. Everybody , while listening to the other person, has it already in their minds that he/she (the other person) is wrong and that no matter what they say, it would just not matter because you know better…

For Men - it is true that women do make a whole lot of sacrifices for you too. They are just not as physical about it as you all are. Women are not in the habit of telling you what it is they have sacrificed for you - this is the nurturing part of all women. Be gentle with you woman for all she wants is acceptance. This is what you want too but she has accepted you for who you are the minute she fell in love with you. Please try and see that. It is hard for you guys to see this as you believe in a more physical approach to this matter. Remember - women are not like that. It is the unfortunate truth.

For Women - Men will be demanding is a more physical sense. Bear with it and try and make them understand that they are heard. Men will be stubborn, yes - but try and make them realize that you too have feelings and that they way you react is not over-reacting rather it is just a normal reaction as a woman. I do know many would not agree to this but this is the unfortunate truth. Be patient. If they do not understand, give them space - they will realize it eventually.

Looking from some of the problems being addressed - Wouldn’t you think that there are too many burdens you get while in a relationship as compared to when you are single?

So - what is the end result?? Is it to be submissive and take the constant blows? Is it to stand your ground? Is it to walk away?…………this is your choice for every relationship has its own personality. You do what you think is best and remember - go with your heart and not your brain. 

Note: Credit and thanks for the makers of the images used in this post. I had gotten it from google not realizing it was from Tumblr users. A very big thanks as it was most helpful. :) I do hope this helps troubled couples a bit. Most of this is from a personal perspective as I have gone through this. Stay blessed.